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The Last Unicorn (1982)
IMDB rating: 7.10
Plot: A brave unicorn and a magician fight an evil king who is obsessed with attempting to capture the world’s unicorns.
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Directors: Bass Jules
Actors: Arkin Alan,Bridges Jeff,Klein Robert,Lee Christopher,Wynn Keenan,Wynn Keenan,Frees Paul,Auberjonois Rene,Theodore Brother,Messick Don,Lester Jack,Family,Animation,Fantasy,
Am I Officially Giving Up On Love?
I am a Hispanic guy, 23 years old and still a virgin. I have never had a girlfriend or kissed one before. I have tried to ask girls out, they reject me every time, and I keep getting stuck in the "Friend Zone" every time. This problem has caused me low self esteem, depression, bitterness, and disappointment. Every time I see a man hug or kiss his girlfriend or hold her hand in public, I envy them. I have a few friends that are beautiful women, every time they get dumped by their boyfriends they come crying on my shoulder and saying "where are the good men at?" If they only knew…that a good man is standing right next to them. I be telling myself things like "If this beautiful woman was my girlfriend, I would never do this to her".
I am tired of hearing things like "Someday you will meet her", "Someday this, someday that". I sometimes fear that I have been cursed to remain lonely for the rest of my life, but what did I do to deserve this!!! I have tried self help books, dressing well, writing them poetry, giving them roses, but nothing seems to work. I got tired of the BS and decided to do something.
Last week I went to see a high priced escort (amazing blonde). She thought I wanted to do "it" with her. She was surprised when I said "no" to her. I told her that I wanted to know what it was like to have a girlfriend. She told me that she could not believe that a good looking guy like me, had never had a girlfriend before, was still a virgin, and was seeking a girlfriend experience. I took her out to eat at a fancy Italian restaurant, we walked in the park, and we watched a movie together. Those 3 hours were like heaven to me, she made me feel like I was the most important man in her life, she treated me like some kind of king or Hollywood star, it was a wonderful experience.
I did not do "it" with her, I just wanted to know what it was like to have a girlfriend. I paid her $600 and we went our separate ways. I find myself drinking tequila and going to strip clubs a lot. I am growing a hard shell and starting not to care about "true love". I am bitter over my "problem" and feel disgruntled to the point, that I have decided that it might just be better for me to remain single for the rest of my life. I am tired of the BS and false hopes.
Maybe I am just overreacting, maybe this is just a young adult "phase" I am going through. Maybe I will find true love. Maybe I will never find her and she will forevermore elude me like the unproven existence of the unicorn or when hell freezes over or bulls start wearing panties. Maybe my soul is damned to be lonely for all eternity and remain an unfulfilled unhappy ghost forever. Maybe this, maybe that…but who cares?
I will finish earning my law degree and become a lawyer. I will stop drinking and engaging in destructive behaviors, I will reform. I will become the best man I can ever become, the best of the best. Those women who rejected me for those low life punks, I will prove to them that I am better, I am the alpha male. I am the real man. I am a good man. I will prove to women that good men still exist. This is my verdict, this is my mission, to become the best of the best, I will become rich, influential, and powerful. And every woman who rejected me will regret their decision for the rest of their lives.
For Example: Guys, if you and Megan Fox or some really hot Hollywood actress were dating in high school, before that person was even a movie star. Let’s say that you dump her and trade her for someone else. Years after you graduate from high school, that "girl" you rejected became famous, rich, and powerful. I am sure you guys will regret that "decision" for the rest of your lives. I hope that women who rejected me, will feel the same way in the future.
My Myspace Profile:
http://www.myspace.com/thedanielaguilar
Hey buddy, slow down… unfortunately you were going after women who didn’t find you as the right guy. Maybe you should go after a different type of women. If you have a type you are attracted to, I’m sure that is the type you peruse. Unfortunately, that isn’t the type of women who is attracted to you.
My old boss always complained that he couldn’t find a women to marry, all he wanted was to get married and have kids. But he always chose the same type of women… short, blond, big boobs. I told him one day, you need to start dating OTHER types of women. He is now married to a brunette with small boobs.
Also, you need to ask a girl out right away and not become friends first. That is ALWAYS a mistake and puts you in, "the friend zone." You try to be nice and become friend, then you ask them out, but by then it’s already too late. Next, you CAN’T be a girl’s shoulder to cry on, by that point, she is never going to date you, because you are in, "the friend zone." This is different if the girl is already your girlfriend.
Instead, when you see a girl you like, ASK HER OUT! Don’t get to know her, buy her a drink, then get her number. Don’t ask her to "hangout," Tell her that you like her and want to get to know her. Tell her you want to take her out on a date. Next, if a girl you like, is trying to talk to you about her problems, stop her, tell her that you care for her, but can’t be there for her, she has girlfriends for the crying bit.
Plus, 23 isn’t bad… I could start dating when I was 16. I didn’t have my first date until I was 19. That is when I had my first boyfriend. A year and a half later we broke up, for no good reason, other than he thought I could do better. A year later he was dating and then got engaged to a short, fat, ugly, hepatitis C infested, unemployed waitress, single mother from a one night stand, self proclaimed B*TCH.
Life isn’t fair… but you should already know that. I could say it will happen, "someday," but it won’t unless YOU do something about it. Stop playing the SWEET guy and start being the CONFIDENT guy. Don’t treat women badly, but don’t be their friend first either. If you want something, go for it.
My current BF has REALLY bad self esteem and he is handsome, sexy, and desirable. He thinks he is short, chubby, and loosing his hair… NONE OF WHICH IS TRUE! We had worked together for about 1 year and a half, but our paths only crossed once, for about 5 second, then for a week straight I saw him everyday. He ended up coming over to my place, because my roommate invited him and his best friend over. I thought he was sexy right away, we were all talking about how handsome he was, even saying it to him. My friend ended up calling him after he dropped off his friend, to see if he would come back and hangout with me (I just got out of a 2 year relationship, because he still wasn’t sure about me… I wasn’t looking for anything). We watched "50 First Dates" together on the couch. I got cold and was huddling in a blanket and he asked if I wanted to cuddle with him. I said sure so we cuddled during most of the movie. At one point, he even leaned in and kissed me. IT WAS AMAZING!
We didn’t know each other, he didn’t become my friend first. He took risks and asked me to cuddle… needless to say, he got the girl.
Tiger Lily | Jan 24, 2010
dude dont give up when they come crying to you ask them out
EDIT #1: but all in all man hiring an escort for $600 is a serious problem but hey dude my girlfriend (occasionally) lets me go to strip clubs – what the hell is wrong with that?
@Gregg: Dude you was dating her when i was 7 years old daaaaaaang slow your roll player
Saliva Man (SUUUUUH) | Jan 24, 2010
Oh, George……….I never knew!!!………LOLOL!!!!
dude, nobody cares, grow up.get a dog and if you ignore women long enough they will come to you !
just work on having a good job and your own place….(not some dumpy little apt. either)
and get the hell out of those sleez bars….you want to get a girl friend…go to Denny’s or some other all night diner, drink coffee and flirt, or go to the mall and flirt with the chicks at different stores!
One time, no sh&t on a dare I got 22 dates for one night just cruising a huge mall……all they can say is no or get lost moron…..like you never heard that before !….LOLOL!
Mountain Man | Jan 24, 2010
Will you marry me , you seem the man of my dreams, wow , there loss, you have amazing morals, and a great respect for life and love and women and yourself, if you were here i would date u in a heartbeat xxxxxxxxxxx good luck baby im am positive u will meet someone, but nothing ever comes when were looking so hard .
lynsey | Jan 24, 2010
no, thats not true. Someday, when you are least expecting it, you’ll meet someone where you’ll have am instant connection. There will be a no denial bond between ya’ll. Thats when you realize what life is about. Don’t be in such a hurry, it will happen.
lilly l | Jan 24, 2010
* Daniel: " Love is the ability, and willingness to allow those that you care for to be whatever they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you."…* About Happiness " No person can make anyone Happy, they can only contribute to the Happiness that the person already has for themselves."…You can always contribute to a Persons Happiness, but it is impossible to make them Happy, you can only contribute to the Happiness that they already have for themselves."..People make themselves Happy, but other people can contribute to their Happiness, they cannot make them, or anyone Happy; " that is a do it yourself project.*… If you attend Church services you may find the person you are looking for there.* Best Regards.* Dan… I liked your myspace site.* " Happy Trails to You.".. Dan
dca2003311@yahoo.com | Jan 24, 2010
Dan, I’m a fairly beat up, kinda creepy looking guy. Most people that talk to me think I’m nuts.
I managed to have Barbarella for 12 years, since I was sixteen (sophomore year), and then married to her last October.
If a woman can put up with me (especially for that length of time) then you sure as hell can find someone.
Gregg Andrews: Reloaded | Jan 25, 2010
Married that pretty lady first time 15 years later, found #2 5 years later and been HAPPILY MARRIED 25 years in August, sometime what we seek is not always what we need. Remeber the grass is always greener on the other side of the road, so how many rodents have been killed trying to get there.
ahsoasho2u2 | Jan 26, 2010
When those women come crying on your shoulder, why don’t you care for them then? They are vulnerable at that point and you could really make them feel better by talking to them, hugging them and being there for more than just a shoulder to cry on. You are so young, I wish you would stop worrying about it. A lot of people your age don’t even know what love is yet. They think they do but they don’t. They don’t know that the beauty of youth will disappear. Beauty is in a person’s heart and soul, it’s in their living, their mind, and their spirit. Sometimes that is not known until a person is a lot older. People are foolish in their youth. I think you are heading in the right direction when you say you are going to get your education first. Go for it head on and totally immersed and you will be better off. Someone will love you for who you really are deep inside, not superficially. You don’t need to set your worth on whether you are a virgin or not, that is really not important in the end. I know it’s important to you now, but you will learn. Just so you know, there are many, many women who will treat you like a king for money, and for a lot less than $600. Did you ever try it with some of those lonely friends of yours? I bet they would do all that lady did with you just to go out with you and you wouldn’t have to pay them anything. Did you ask them? Women don’t know how a guy feels unless he says it. Open up to them. Good luck.
Sweet Cupcake | Jan 26, 2010
